With inputs from emotional healer & transpersonal psychologist Blossom Furtado.
Melody Beattie once remarked, "Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life." It is a sentiment that encapsulates the essence of gratitude. Derived from the Latin word "Gratia," gratitude is more than a simple expression of thankfulness.
Gratitude is a practice beyond just about saying "thank you" but truly feeling and experiencing the emotional charge of gratitude in your heart and body. By incorporating gratitude into your daily life, you can create a positive ripple effect on your emotional, psychological, and social aspects, such as a stronger immune system, better sleep, better relationships, ultimately leading to a happier and healthier life.
According to Dr. Robert A. Emmons, a renowned expert in the field of gratitude, this emotion unfolds in two crucial stages. The first stage involves acknowledging the goodness that exists in one's life. When we embrace gratitude, we say "YES" to life and all that it offers. In doing so, we vibrate at a more positive state, becoming microcosms of positivity.
The second stage delves into recognizing that the sources of this goodness extend beyond the self. Gratitude enables us to connect with the macrocosm, expanding this positive state to encompass the world around us.
Gratitude can be either an act, or a habit as your personality trait, or a much deeper attitude as part of your character. The latter is developed through practice, by consistently acknowledging things you should be grateful for, you can cultivate a more grateful disposition. The time it takes to develop this characteristic attitude can vary from person to person, but it is achievable through ongoing practice and awareness.
While gratitude alone may not be a sole solution for mental health conditions like anxiety or depression, there is some evidence that incorporating gratitude into one's life can have a positive impact on mental health.
Gratitude doesn't require you to ignore or deny challenges. Instead, it involves acknowledging the goodness that still exists in your life, no matter the circumstances. Prioritizing gratitude doesn't mean you have to be positive all the time; it's about finding moments of thankfulness amid life's ups and downs.
Some specific ways to practice gratitude, in addition to keeping a gratitude journal, could include:
• Expressing gratitude to someone directly.
• Taking moments of mindfulness to reflect on what you're grateful for.
• Using visualization techniques to focus on positive aspects of your life.
• Practicing gratitude through small acts of kindness and generosity.
• Recognizing and appreciating the efforts and contributions of others in your life.
Readers interested in starting a gratitude practice can try any of these techniques to find what works best for them.
The impact of gratitude is far-reaching, it’s an emotional practice that doesn't just end with words; it goes beyond mere expressions allowing us to experience gratitude throughout our entire being.
Gratitude affects the parasympathetic nervous system which is responsible for rest and digest functions. It counterbalances the sympathetic nervous system, which is associated with the fight or flight response. Gratitude, as a positive emotion, has a potential impact on the autonomic nervous system, including the parasympathetic system.
Heart Rate Variability: Gratitude has been associated with increased heart rate variability, which is a measure of the variation in time between heartbeats. Higher HRV is often considered an indicator of a well-functioning parasympathetic nervous system. An increased HRV suggests that the heart can more flexibly respond to the changing demands of the environment, reflecting a state of relaxation and resilience.
Gratitude is linked to an improved vagal tone, indicating a better functioning vagus nerve. Higher vagal tone is associated with better emotional regulation, improved stress resilience, and overall better cardiovascular health.
In a world where the pursuit of happiness is a common goal, gratitude stands as a tangible path to achieving it. The happiness hormones, such as dopamine, serotonin, endorphins, and oxytocin, are generated, enhanced, and maintained through this simple yet powerful practice.