Lady: I've been feeling off lately, probably pre-menopause. It reminded me of how tough menopause was for my mom. She really struggled with mood swings and hot flashes.
Husband: I remember you talking about it. Do you think you'll go through the same thing?
Lady: Honestly, I’m desperate to avoid the same misery she went through. It was really hard on her and everyone around her.
Husband: Isn't it something you just have to endure?
Lady: Not necessarily. There are ways to make it easier. I’ve been reading about some holistic methods that can really help reduce the issues and support this change better.
Husband: Like what?
Lady: Healthy diet, yoga, and other natural practices. We should look into it and see how I can benefit through this. Let’s do some research together.
This exchange between a couple highlights a common scenario in many households. Menopause is a significant phase in a woman's life, often misunderstood and seldom discussed openly. As families strive to support their loved ones, gaining a deeper understanding of menopause can make a substantial difference. The following sections explore the reasons behind the lack of awareness, the unpreparedness of many households, the benefits of holistic methods, and the perspectives of Traditional Chinese Medicine and Ayurveda on menopause. Additionally, practical advice on providing support is offered to help families navigate this transition more smoothly.
Why People Know Little About Menopause
Due to a combination of cultural taboos and inadequate communication, many partners may not be aware of the natural cessation of menstruation, often referred to as menopause. It's a topic frequently shrouded in silence and stigma, with societal norms historically minimizing open discussions about women's reproductive health. This lack of awareness can lead to misunderstandings and insufficient support during a critical phase in a relationship. Education systems and healthcare providers often don't emphasize menopause education for partners, further perpetuating a knowledge gap. Many partners (including same-sex partners) may not seek out information due to the misconception that menopause is solely a biological issue.
How Unprepared a Household Can Be for Menopause
Menopause brings with it a host of symptoms, such as hot flashes, mood swings, sleep disturbances, and cognitive changes, which can significantly affect a woman’s daily life. When these changes begin, a lack of awareness and preparedness can lead to frustration and confusion among family members.
The emotional turmoil can strain marital relationships, as partners may not understand the root cause of the mood swings or irritability. Children, especially teenagers, might misinterpret their mother’s symptoms as personal affronts or general disinterest.
Financial strain can also emerge if menopausal symptoms necessitate medical intervention or if the woman’s work performance is impacted, leading to potential job insecurity.
75% women globally experience menopausal symptoms, with 20-25% endure severe symptoms, with many turning to Hormonal Replacement Therapy (HRT) which may have side effects and risks too.
Impact of Holistic Methods
Research indicates that women who adopt holistic methods, such as a healthy diet, regular yoga practice and other holistic practices tend to experience fewer and less severe menopausal symptoms. A systematic review published in 2019 concluded that regular yoga practice could reduce the overall menopausal symptom score by up to 30%^.
Menopause in Traditional Chinese Medicine
Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) views menopause as a natural process resulting from the decline of reproductive energy, or Jing, stored in the kidneys. According to TCM, menopause is a time when the body's Yin and Yang energies become imbalanced. Yin represents cooling, moistening, and nourishing forces, while Yang represents warming, drying, and activating forces. As women age, there is a natural decline in Kidney Yin.
TCM aims to restore harmony by addressing both Yin deficiency and any underlying Qi (vital energy) stagnation or blood deficiencies. The holistic approach of TCM at Ananda includes acupuncture, moxibustion, cupping and lifestyle modifications which nourishes blood and regulates menstrual cycles to replenish deficient Yin and cool excess heat. The treatment protocol for menopause at Ananda in the Himalayas is designed through the Rebalance Programme tailored to the individual's specific symptoms and constitution.
Led by TCM and supported by Ayurveda, Yoga, Meditation and Emotional Therapy, Ananda’s Rebalance programme views menopause as a natural transition and focuses on restoring balance, helping women guests navigate this phase with greater ease and regain vitality.
Menopause in Ayurveda
In Ayurveda, the ancient system of medicine from India, this phase, known as "Rajonivritti" (cessation of menstruation), is influenced by the three Doshas: Vata, Pitta, and Kapha, which are fundamental bio energies in Ayurvedic philosophy.
Menopause primarily involves an increase in the Vata dosha. Associated with air and space, it governs movement and change. The symptoms of menopause, such as irregular periods, hot flashes, anxiety, and insomnia, are manifestations of increased Vata. Pitta (fire and water) and Kapha (earth and water) imbalances can also contribute, with Pitta causing hot flashes, irritability, and night sweats, while Kapha leading to weight gain and depression.
Ayurvedic treatment for menopause focuses on balancing these doshas through diet, lifestyle changes, and herbal remedies. Incorporating herbs like Ashwagandha, Shatavari, and Brahmi can help balance hormones and alleviate symptoms. Ayurvedic therapies and cleansing treatments with medicated oils soothes the Vata dosha.
Providing Support
Understanding that menopause is a natural process and not a personal failing is crucial in fostering a supportive environment. Encouraging honest discussions about feelings and symptoms can help demystify the experience and reduce misunderstandings. Partners and children should express their willingness to listen and offer support without judgment. This can create a safe space for the woman to share her struggles and needs. Gifting a woman with a retreat that helps her regain the desired Rebalance is a nice way for a partner to express their concern.
Additionally, emotional support is vital. This includes being patient and offering reassurance during mood swings or emotional outbursts. At Ananda, Emotional Healing Therapy and Meditation provide both the person undergoing menopause and their family with coping strategies and emotional support.
In summary, holistic intervention using TCM, Ayurveda, Yoga, Diet and other lifestyle changes, education, communication, and practical and emotional support are key to helping the women and her family navigate the challenges of menopause.
^Yoga for menopausal symptoms—A systematic review and meta-analysis - Maturitas